Behaviour has a story
A child's actions can offer clues about what they are feeling, practising or finding difficult. Pause before settling on a label.
Author · Educator · Father
A closer look at how young children learn, connect and grow, through the science of early childhood and the everyday reality of being a parent.
Making Sense of the First Five Years
A father, a son, and the science of what children are really doing.
Out now · Published 26 October 2026 · By Saurav Singh, early childhood educator and father of two
He spent a decade teaching other people's children. Then he had one of his own.
When Saurav became a father, the knowledge he had gathered as an educator met the unpredictability of family life. Making Sense of the First Five Years brings those two worlds together, using research and lived experience to explore what children may be learning and communicating in their first five years.
It is not a checklist for raising a perfect child. It is an invitation to look more closely, ask better questions and make a little more sense of the moments that can leave adults wondering what is going on.
A child's actions can offer clues about what they are feeling, practising or finding difficult. Pause before settling on a label.
Children learn in different ways and at different paces. Understanding the broader picture matters more than expecting a perfect timeline.
Research becomes more meaningful when it connects with the ordinary moments families and educators experience every day.
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Insights
Short, research-informed pieces on behaviour, play, development and parenting in the first five years, written for parents, whānau and educators.
Is your child watching other children but not joining in? An early childhood teacher and father on onlooker play, temperament and what helps.
What is your toddler trying to tell you? Why tantrums happen, how common they are and what genuinely helps, from an early childhood teacher and father.
What develops between birth and five, why the early years matter, and why no two children follow the same timetable. A plain-language guide.
Why toddlers say 'mine', why making them share rarely works, and how turn-taking helps children learn to give. From an early childhood teacher.
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